In my last post, I talked about the necessity of giving yourself to Scripture in order to daily live in right relationship with God. I talked about how this includes regularly reading and thinking about (meditation) Scripture and talking about it with others. And I said applying Scripture is where the rubber meets the road in giving yourself to it.
Applying Scripture in daily life
Applying Scripture involves acting upon it. Living out its commands and principles. As you read and meditate on Scripture and talk about it with others, it will be in your mind and on your heart as you approach daily decisions and choices. You must then, in reliance on God, act.
In some situations, it is easy to act in light of Scripture. In other situations, it is much more difficult. Acting in light of Scripture when it is difficult is really where the rubber meets the road. And that is where you must really seek to ski.
Skiing involves sacrifice
Skiing is exhilarating and an absolute blast, but it is also difficult. Not everyone can ski. Some people are not in good enough physical shape to ski. This could be for reasons beyond their control, but it could also be because they never exercise. Or because they eat a horrible diet. These kinds of people are choosing the small, short-sighted pleasures of lying around and excessively watching television, playing video games or eating for the glorious, full-fledged pleasure of skiing.
Skiing also involves practice and training. If you don’t practice and train to ski, you won’t be able to ski. You have to want to ski and you have to choose to ski. You have to choose some short-term sacrifice to enjoy the long-term, fulfilling delight of skiing.
It is a similar situation with daily choices and living in relationship with God. Acting in light of Scripture when it is difficult to do so involves the short-term sacrifice of saying no to satisfying your flesh and people who have no thought of God in their mind and saying yes to the long-term gain and fulfillment of living in right relationship with the God of the universe. The latter is much more glorious, but also more difficult. You must want to do it and choose to do it.
You can only act on Scripture and live in right relationship with God in reliance upon God: it cannot be done apart from God. But it also won’t happen if you don’t act. God has given you that privilege and responsibility. Galatians 5:1 says it this way, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free: stand firm then and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”
Freedom here is the freedom to joyfully do God’s will and enjoy right relationship with Him. The yoke of slavery is anything that prevents us from doing that. One key thing that prevents a lot of people from enjoying God and doing His will is making short-sighted choices that don’t have Scripture and right relationship with God in mind. Instead of skiing, we settle for video games, or - far worse - for pornography or cutting someone down in front of others. The short-term gratification that comes with something like pornography turns long-term into sludge in our stomach, instead of the refreshment of feeling the wind on our faces and sailing down another white slope.
A relationship with variables, not a formula
There is no formula for daily living in right relationship with God. Anyone who says there is, is either mistaken or is trying to sell you something.
There is no formula for living in right relationship with God because of two key variables and because it is a relationship, not an equation. The first key variable is people seeking to live in right relationship with God have the enemies of the world, the flesh and the devil (Eph 2:1-3; 1 John 2:15-17) to contend with. These enemies come up with an endless variety of different ways to tempt and lead people astray down the same old tired, dead and unfulfilling sinful paths.
The second key variable people face is thousands of different situations with unique factors. One person will have a great boss; the next will have a cranky one. One person will have a teenager and a toddler, live next to four loud college students and be in a struggling marriage, etc., etc., etc. Every person has a different situation and there is no source that provides a step-by-step list of how to deal with every one (”what about Scripture?” you ask? More on that in a minute).
Finally, living in right relationship with God is about growing in a relationship, not following an equation. Relationships do not have formulas: they are dynamic and changing. The reason a relationship with God changes is not because God changes, but because God is changing us to be more and more like Christ. As God does this, the way we respond to situations and live our lives changes.
While there is no formula for navigating daily life in right relationship with God, there are three rock-solid, unchanging, perfect, sell-your-house-and-everything-you-own-to-get-them sources of help and hope that we should run to, cast ourselves on and learn from as we seek to act on Scripture in the routine of daily life.
Three sources: (1) Jesus Christ, (2) the Holy Spirit and (3) Scripture
Jesus
Jesus is the Rock and Redeemer of God’s people (Eph 1:7-8); He is our perfect Mediator before God, always interceding at God’s right hand for His people (Heb 1, 4:14-16). He is the God who we worship and the Way that we enter and continue in right relationship with the God who we worship.
While the temptations we face and the situations we are in are unique and ever-changing, Jesus is not. He never changes (Heb 13:8). And while Jesus has not been in every unique situation we are in, He has faced every type of temptation to sin there is and withstood them all (Heb 4:14-16). This is why the author of Hebrews tells us to look to Christ, the Author and Perfector of our faith, as we seek to live in right relationship with God (Heb 12:1-3).
Holy Spirit
In John 16:7, Jesus tells His disciples that it was to their advantage that He go away. To their advantage that their Rock and Redeemer go away. Why? “for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you” (John 16:7b ESV). The Helper is the Holy Spirit and Jesus said it was to our advantage that He leave so the Holy Spirit would come.
The Holy Spirit’s chief roles are to convict people of sin and draw them to Christ and to help God’s people understand and apply Scripture. Jesus spoke of the latter as leading God’s people into all truth (John 16:13-14) and reminding us of what He said (John 14:26), which we have recorded in Scripture.
God put His Spirit within us to help us live in relationship with Him and understand and apply Scripture: this should give us confidence that we can do just that.
Scripture
Scripture is the record of God’s words to people. When we read Scripture, we are reading the words of the same God who used words to speak the world into existence. Scripture is perfect, inerrant, powerful, good, true and sufficient to equip us to do God’s will (2 Tim 3:16-17). Giving ourselves to Scripture is not the end all, be all of living in right relationship with God, but it is an essential element.
I mentioned above that there is no source book that offers a step-by-step guide for handling every situation in life. I think a key reason people complain about Scripture not being relevant to their lives is because they try to approach it as just such a source. People open Scripture and don’t find anything about shopping malls, birth control pills, boyfriends or living with a parent who has Alzheimer’s disease and they shut it and go away disappointed.
God has not designed Scripture as a problem source book. Instead, in Scripture He gives us specific commands to follow and principles to apply to the different situations that we face. Scripture is God’s sufficient Word to us, but it is sufficient according to God’s definition, not ours. By God’s definition, sufficient means it always provides the commands and principles we need to do the will of God as we live in reliance on Him. It does not mean that Scripture provides a step-by-step set of rules to follow for every situation we face.
The beautiful thing about Scripture is it requires us to have an active, open relationship with God, where we communicate to Him through prayer and listen to Him in His Word. In short, it requires us to ski.
Relationships with others
There is a lot more that could be said about living in right relationship with God, but I will move on to relationships with people. One thing we will see is that we really aren’t moving on: our relationship with God directly affects our relationships with people.
Relationships with people fall into several different categories - family, workplace, community, neighborhood, friendship, local body of Christ - that inevitably intertwine and overlap. Every relationship is also with a believer or non-believer, which makes a difference for how we approach it. Over the next few posts, I will look at some of these different relationships and how God would have us approach them.